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Marriage Isn’t For You

Marriage isn’t for you. 

You don’t marry to make yourself happy, you marry to make someone else happy. More than that, your marriage isn’t for yourself, you’re marrying for a family. Not just for the in-laws and all of that nonsense, but for your future children.

Marriage isn’t for you. 

It’s not about you. Marriage is about the person you married.

Suara Dini Hari

Jika bukan diriku yang berada didepan shaf mu nanti, tak apa.

Pasti dirinya lebih fasih membaca Al Fatihah dan 113 surah lainnya saat memimpin shalat berjamaah.

Pasti dirinya memiliki lantunan adzan yang lebih indah untuk mengumandangkan kelahiran anakmu kelak.

Pasti pemahaman hidupnya lebih luas untuk menjaga keutuhan keluargamu sampai akhir hidup.

Diriku yakin, paras, materi, dan jabatan bukanlah tandingan untukku. Semua dapat kugapai pasti.

Tapi jika dirinya memiliki ketiganya lebih awal diriku, maka itu kehormatan yang datang untukmu. Kebahagiaan untukmu, kesedihan tentu bukan untukku. Toh, urat sedihku sudah terputus.

25/2/14

“Hal yang menyebalkan dari orang melankolis yang gak tegaan adalah:
Ketika merasa kesal dengan orang lain, anda masih punya kesempatan untuk memaafkan dan menghilangkan rasa kesal tersebut dengan cepat. Namun, ketika orang lain yang justru kesal dengan diri anda, langkah terbaik yang anda lakukan hanyalah diam. Karena gak tau harus apa lagi.”

“Katanya, gue itu kalo dibiarin atau dilepas juga gak mengkhawatirkan. Semacam bisa survive dan solutif. Ditinggal-able banget gak sih gue :’)”

Lima menit yang pas untuk menyendiri di kamar.





 Nobody gets too much heaven no more It’s much harder to come by, I’m waiting in line Nobody gets too much love anymore It’s as high as a mountain and harder to climb Oh you and me girl got a lot of love in store And it flows through you and it flows through me And I love you so much more than my life I can see beyond forever Everything we are will never die Loving’s such a beautiful thing Oh you make my world a summer day Are you just a dream to fade away Nobody gets too much heaven no more It’s much harder to come by, I’m waiting in line Nobody gets too much love anymore It’s as high as a mountain and harder to climb You and me girl got a highway to the sky We can turn away from the night and day And the tears we had to cry, you’re my life I can see a new tomorrow Everything we are will never die Loving’s such a beautiful thing When you are to me, the light above Made for all to see our precious love Nobody gets too much heaven no more It’s much harder to come by, I’m waiting in line Nobody gets too much love anymore It’s as high as a mountain and harder to climb Loving’s is such a beautiful thing You make my world a summer day Are you just a dream to fade away Nobody gets too much heaven no more It’s much harder to come by, I’m waiting in line Nobody gets too much love anymore Its as wide as a river and harder to cross Nobody gets too much heaven no more It’s much harder to come by, I’m waiting in line Nobody gets too much love anymore It’s as high as a mountain and harder to climb

Lima menit yang pas untuk menyendiri di kamar.

Nobody gets too much heaven no more
It’s much harder to come by, I’m waiting in line
Nobody gets too much love anymore
It’s as high as a mountain and harder to climb

Oh you and me girl got a lot of love in store
And it flows through you and it flows through me
And I love you so much more than my life

I can see beyond forever
Everything we are will never die
Loving’s such a beautiful thing

Oh you make my world a summer day
Are you just a dream to fade away

Nobody gets too much heaven no more
It’s much harder to come by, I’m waiting in line
Nobody gets too much love anymore
It’s as high as a mountain and harder to climb

You and me girl got a highway to the sky
We can turn away from the night and day
And the tears we had to cry, you’re my life

I can see a new tomorrow
Everything we are will never die
Loving’s such a beautiful thing
When you are to me, the light above
Made for all to see our precious love

Nobody gets too much heaven no more
It’s much harder to come by, I’m waiting in line
Nobody gets too much love anymore
It’s as high as a mountain and harder to climb

Loving’s is such a beautiful thing
You make my world a summer day
Are you just a dream to fade away

Nobody gets too much heaven no more
It’s much harder to come by, I’m waiting in line
Nobody gets too much love anymore
Its as wide as a river and harder to cross

Nobody gets too much heaven no more
It’s much harder to come by, I’m waiting in line
Nobody gets too much love anymore
It’s as high as a mountain and harder to climb

Relationship - Riding Motorcycle

Ibarat mengendarai motor, jika terlalu sering melihat kaca spion maka bersiaplah dengan kejutan dari arah depan yang akan menggangu dalam perjalanan. Kecepatan motor melambat, timbul perasaan ragu-ragu, hilang konsentrasi, atau kecepatan tak terkontrol sehingga “BOOM!” …saat sesuatu yang mengejutkan itu benar-benar datang. Kaca spion memang digunakan untuk mengantisipasi agar tidak terburu-buru dalam perjalanan. Bukan berarti terus dipandang hanya karena sudah bosan dalam perjalanan lalu berharap ada keajaiban dari belakang.

So, masih belum move on dari masa lalu? :))

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